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Responsibility, authority, and accountability

Looking northwest across Central Park from 72nd Street and Fifth Avenue. 3:20 PM. Photo: JH.
April 19, 2010. Beautiful Spring weekend in New York, but often overcast, with chilly winds near the river, burning many of the tulip petals planted around the trees on Gracie Square.
Looking north from Fifth Avenue at 73rd Street (following the Greek parade). 5:30 PM.
Looking north from East End Avenue at 83rd Street, 7:30 PM.
After an early dinner at Swifty's last night, I couldn't resist getting a shot of the shop windows next door -- Lexington Gardens (flowers) and John Rosselli (table setting).
“There comes a point in everybody’s life where responsibility, authority and accountability, intercept.”

Those words were said to me about twenty years ago in an interview I was doing with a man named Tex McCrary. Tex, who was in his late 70s then, had had a long and successful career as a public relations executive and radio personality. He and his wife, Jinx Falkenberg, were famous in America of the 1940s and 1950s as “Tex and Jinx” on morning WOR radio show “Hi Jinx.”

Tex made the remark in reference to something he was saying about the Presidency of George H.W. Bush, who was at that time going to be running for re-election. Tex, who was always a Republican and a very early supporter and promoter of Eisenhower for President, was not optimistic about Bush’s chance for re-election.

I’ve thought about that particular quote (which Tex McCrary made very offhandedly over a lunch at “21”) many times in relationship to my own life and of the lives around me.

John Paulson
I thought of it again over the weekend when so much of the talk that has been burning up the phone lines has been about Goldman Sachs. And John Paulson. And Wall Street in general.

I was talking recently with a friend of mine who was seriously hurt financially by these past two years. He’s a guy who’s also been in the investment business (very successfully) for a long time. When things around him started to collapse, like Bear and then Lehman and then Merrill, and AIG, and WaMu, etc., even he was shocked by the information that was surfacing.

Now two years later, still trying to piece it all together for himself, “to make sense of it,” he told me he discovered a lot of the people in charge, running these big pools of money were “actually stupid.” He was still dumfounded to have realized this. He repeated the words, as if let it sink in: “actually stupid.”

The situation is beginning to look more and more like we’re further and further from cleaning up after this credit conflagration which has gripped this country (and the world) for the past decade and a half. It’s beginning to look like The Unknown is upon us. The Icelandic volcano could almost be seen as God’s Metaphor. Someone told me over the weekend about a major Wall Street figure who had recently hired nine bodyguards to protect him and his family. From what, we are left to wonder.

In the midst of this, the NYSD’s very own financial guru and blossoming novelist – also financially related, Alexandra Lebenthal, was inspired over the weekend to set her thoughts about it all down on paper in a short roman a clef about the psychology of the personality that has been driving the behemoth. It’s today’s Social History.

Alexandra comes to the subject genetically, and is the third generation – founded by her grandmother – in the financial advisory business.

Coincidentally, when she sent in the photos she wanted to illustrate her piece, she unknowingly chose a house that belongs to Madoff investor, Walter Noel, on Lake Agawam in Southampton.

Coincidentally, and completely unbeknownst to Alexandra: right next door to the Noel property is the estate of John Paulson.

Katherine Heigl was honored by the ASPCA this past Thursday night at their 13th Annual Bergh Ball fundraising gala at the Plaza. Miss Heigl is an animal-lover and lives with her husband her daughter and seven dogs. Rescued.
Spirit the Dog.
Angelica Compagno's clutch.
I went to this ball last year and came home with a new dog, the 8- or 9-year-old Jenny. Jenny was a very quiet, timid shih-tzu who obviously had been kept either caged or isolated from everybody and everything. Almost a year later in her new home, she's got used to a cage-less home life with other dogs and her personality has blossomed with her freedom. Watching that transformation is the most inspiring gift an adopted pet can bring into your life.
Ed Sayres (President of the ASPCA), Katherine Heigl, Isaac Mizrahi, and Philly the Dog
Amy Cosman and Steve Tanger
Anisha Lakhani, Kimberly Guilfoyle, and Maggie Rizer
Anne Baker, Melissa Berkelhammer, and Lauren Mason
Angelica Compagno and Liliana Cavendish
Arnold Rosenshein and Cornelia Bregman
Drayton Wyatt Harris, Liz Walker, and Jay Sullivan
Katherine Heigl
Adam Maher and Jeff Pfeifle
Cena Hackler Jackson
Anthony Barwacz and Meredith Belden
Chele Chiavacci and Jonathan Farkas
Adam Zucker and Arielle Greenberg
Allison Aston and Alexandra Lind Rose
Benjamin and Linda Lambert
Barbara Regna, Peter Regna, and Stephanie Kamfar
Betsey Ruprecht and Melanie Wambold
Cynthia and Dan Lufkin
Diane Passage
Elke Gazzara, Jean Shafiroff, and Margo Langenberg
Chuck and Ellen Scarborough
Kimberly Ovitz, Randy Levine, and Mindy Levine
Francine LeFrak and Rick Friedberg
Hunt Slonem, Margo McNabb Nederlander, and Hugh Hildesley
Jay Aston, Melanie Fascitelli, John Auerbach, and Andrew Black
Julie Kasle and Michael Gilbane
Claudia and William Walters
Denise Wohl
EdMundo Huerta and Carolina Portago
Jonathan and Somers Farkas
Joanna Baker, Peter de Neufville, and Phaedra Chrousos
Jennifer Kennedy and Michelle Gradin
Kurt Wolfgruber and Kim White
Jaimee and Matt Bloom
Margo McNabb Nederlander and Melanie Wambold
Laura Barket and Michael the Dog
Meredith Belden
Lucy and Phil Suarez
Marcia Levine and Pierre Levai
Jay Sullivan and Sara Gilbane Sullivan
Kris Zdyb and Melissa Foss
Martin and Mary Puris
Melissa and Chappy Morris
Martin and Jean Shafiroff
Mia McDonald and Angelica Compagno
Marsha Perelman
Hoyle Jones
Raymond and Amy Cosman
Mindy Levine and Steve Roth
Nancy Corzine and Richard Kirschenbaum
Ron Delsener and Linda Lambert
Sydney Oliver and Steve Tanger
Tamie Peters Thomas and Rich Thomas
SOFA New York 2010 opened this past Thursday night at the Park Avenue Armory. the Sculpture Objects & Functional Art fair is the nation's premier fair for contemporary decorative arts and design and runs through today, April 19.
Ferrin Gallery
Jack Lenor Larsen
Michael Franks and Mark Lyman
Conor Mahoney and Edith Dicconson with friends
Geoffrey Bradfield and Roric Tobin
William Zimmer
Michelle-Marie and John Heinemann
Barbara and Donald Tober
Valerie Foley and Jean Stone
Pat and Alan Davidson
Jane Sauer.
Cris Levy and Anne Meszko
Kristin Murphy and Suzanne Lovell
Peter Marino shopping
Marilyn White and Christina Juarez
Tony Manning and Christina Juarez
Sidney and Joann Rosoff
Tai Gallery.
Coby
Barry and Lisa West
Sarah Gore, Abby Modell, and Jill Martin
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