Intermissions provided patrons with the opportunity to socialize. For young men on the threshold of their careers, the intermissions were golden opportunities to move among, and be introduced to, the giants of business and finance. Since the eligible daughters of society matrons were presented at the opera, introductions during intermissions often led to courtships and marriage.
Even Caroline Astor was not above “marketing “ the next generation of Astors by appearing often with them at the opera. Harvey O’Connor, an Astor biographer, wrote, “Unfeeling people said Mrs. Astor was intent only on a vulgar display of wealth as she sat, bejeweled, in the Diamond Horseshoe. They forgot she was a mother, that she had four daughters and a son, plain of face and mind, who must be married off into the rank suitable to their exalted station in the American aristocracy.”
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During her tenure at the Metropolitan, Kate Coleman saw generations of the same families. In the Sun interview, she recalled fondly, “... I take a great deal of pleasure in seeing debutantes, come here and remembering when their mothers were debutantes. That’s happened three or four times already, and it is certainly a great season for them this year. [Pointing to a nearby box,] – In that box there are four pretty girls as I ever saw. A year or two ago they used to come to the matinees in short dresses with their hair down. Their dresses are long now but their hair’s up .... I saw their mothers too as schoolgirls at the matinees.”
Kate admitted to lingering in the back of the boxes, in her early years, to hear the music. She remembered hearing Amalie Materna, Marcella Sembrich, Lilli Lehmann, Emma Calve and of course, Caruso. She also heard Toscanini and Puccini conduct. Toward the end of her career, she admitted that “the zest “ for the music had left her a bit and that there were days when she was so busy she was unsure which opera was being performed.
Of the scores of special events at the Metropolitan, Kate remarked, “I couldn’t forget ’em because we were all drawn into the flurry.” The day after the opening of the 1919 season, Edward Albert, the Prince of Wales, attended a gala at the opera house in his honor. Upon arrival, the Prince was escorted by Otto Kahn and Clarence MacKay to J.P. Morgan’s box, # 35, the direct center of the Horseshoe. Sharing the box with the Prince was Viscount Gray, Assistant Secretary of War William Philips and Admiral Halsey. They were joined later in the evening by General John J. Pershing, Mrs. Grover Whalen and Mrs. Rodman Wanamaker.
However the stand-out event for Kate, and perhaps one of the most spectacular non-music events, was the visit by Prince Henry of Prussia, brother of the German Kaiser, on February 25,1902.
Stanford White had been commissioned to transform the Met for the occasion. The walls of the five center boxes were removed to create a viewing chamber suited for royalty. It was canopied with red velvet and white satin and accented by dozens of American Beauty roses.
Another seven boxes were opened to create a large reception area for the Prince and his entourage, dignitaries and guests. According to Kate, there were “hundreds of flowers." Almost every inch of the walls, pillars, balcony and box fronts were festooned with wreaths and swags of Southern smilax. The program for the evening was printed on silk, and Stanford White even created an outline of the royal yacht in electric lights on the roof of the opera house. Kate quoted the cost of the decorations at $90,000 (several million in today’s currency), and said the evening was “the most elegant thing I had ever seen”.
In the same New York Sun interview, Kate refused to speak the about the wealthy patrons she served, despite repeated requests from the reporter. In fact, she said she dreaded being quoted in the press and appearing to betray the trust of the patrons by relating stories or incidents that would be sensationalized. The anonymous reporter wrote of her, “... this superior attendant really shuddered at the thought of innocent publicity.” Although Kate had unlimited access to the boxes and conversations of the some of the oldest and most prestigious families in the city, if not the country, she staunchly protected their right to privacy.
The Sun reporter managed to coax two stories from her and maintained the anonymity of individuals: “I remember when a lady from the West ... dropped a diamond ornament when she took off her cloak and missed it right away. There was three or four gentlemen in the party and went down on the floor and bumped into each other trying to find it and the lady saying all the time ’Don’t inconvenience yourselves, it’s no matter.’ and yet she kept right back and wouldn’t go in ... [and] Caruso was singing so beautiful. She wanted that diamond and hunted for it herself after the gentlemen had given up. Nobody found it until after the party had gone. [It was found] in a crack near the door and under the red carpet. They telephoned her that night that it had been found." |