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Now and then

An Upper West Side side street.4:50 PM. Photo: JH.
August 13, 2010. Some rain, yesterday in New York, finishing off the day cool and damp. Relief.

I had lunch with Judy and Peter Price at Michael’s. Judy founded Avenue Magazine about 35 years ago and was my boss when I was editor there between 1997 and 2000 just before JH and I launched the NYSD.

Judy sold her magazine about ten years ago and being the industrious one that she is, started The National Jewelry Institute. I think the original idea was a Jewelry Museum.
The gold minaudiere that Emperor Haile Selassie gave as a gift to Jackie when she was First Lady. Evidently because it was a gift of State, it was supposed to be left with the government, but Jackie took it anyway, later gave it to her sister Lee, who later sold it at auction,
That may happen, but in the meantime she’s produced several intriguing exhibitions. This September 13, just a month from today she’s opening her “Notorious & Notable; 20th Century Women of Style” at the Museum of the City of New York. The exhibit is featuring jewelry and gowns of 80 of the most prominent – usually socially – women of the 20th century.

It’s an intriguing list from Mrs. J. P. Morgan to Gypsy Rose Lee, from Isadora Duncan to Mercedes de Acosta to Sophie Tucker to Babe Paley to Hilary Geary Ross to Anne (Mrs. Meyer) Lansky. Jewels speak many languages both international and obscure. They tell many stories also, tales of woe and tales of triumph. Mrs. Price has a natural sense of the dramatic and showman’s view of history. This should be a very popular exhibition.

Mercedes de Acosta.
Two of the 80 subjects are Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis and Mercedes de Acosta – opposites as women but both lives worthy of biography, and both fiercely independent. Mercedes de Acosta, who was born seven years before the 20th century, was a writer/poet/ playwright/costume designer/socialite who is remembered for her passionate Sapphic relationships including her claimed relationship with Greta Garbo.

When she died Cecil Beaton wrote in his diary: “I cannot be sorry at Mercedes de Acosta’s death. I am only sorry that she should have been so unfulfilled a character. In her youth she showed zest and originality. She was one of the most rebellious & brazen of Lesbians ... I am relieved that her long drawn out unhappiness has come to an end.”

One of eight children, she grew up at the end of the Gilded Age in the neighborhood of the Roosevelts and the Vanderbilts on West 47th Street. Her much older sister (by eighteen years) Rita Lydig, was a famous beauty whose collection of shoes would beat out any woman living today. Lydig’s personal wardrobe was the basis of the initial collection of the Costume Institute of the Metropolitan Museum.

Mercedes da Acosta wrote a memoir, published when she was in her late 60s called Here Lies the Heart. In it she more or less outed (without coming right out and saying it) a number of famous women who were presumably her lovers. She was just a little ahead of her time with this kind of revelation, and it more than annoyed quite a few of those on her list. Garbo never spoke to her again, even when she saw her on the street. The actress Eva La Gallienne would leave a room if she heard her name mentioned, referring to de Acosta’s memoir as “Here the Heart Lies and Lies and Lies.” Not very long after, the memoirist died at 75, broke and living in a tiny two-room walk up. She is buried at Trinity Cemetery.

So that was lunch.

Princess Anne at 21 ...
... and at 60.
Royals. There is an article in today’s London Daily Mail about Princess Anne, the Princess Royal who is celebrating her 60th birthday this coming Sunday. I was struck by the picture of the princess at 21. You will be too.

Forty years later, the horsey princess prefers looking dowdy and even severe. Years ago in Los Angeles, a friend of mine had a butler who’d come from the Royal Household where he was employed as a footman (no butlers, only footman for the monarchs). Naturally when I had a chance, I asked him what the Royals “were like.”

I already knew that the Royal Household’s former (and even present) staff talk about the family all the time. Which is understandable – it’s at the center of their lives. My friend’s butler was very respectful of all of them although he had favorites, as did his co-workers. The Queen was right on the top of the list although the Queen Mum was at the very top “because she cared about her staff” almost more than anything else.

Charles was okay and so were Andrew and Edward. The two whom he didn’t like so much were Prince Philip and Princess Anne. Arrogant in their treatment of their underlings, was the impression I got.

The piece in the Mail, however, is far more favorable. The Princess is a hard worker and never shirks her family duties. Many believe she would have made a very good king and not surprisingly she is her father’s favorite. He too is supposed to have lamented that Anne wasn’t born a boy as she would have made an excellent king.

Alas poor Charles, once again. Princess Anne is evidently no nonsense but not necessarily no fun. She has had a couple of marriages and is currently married to Timothy Laurence, a commander in the Royal Navy. Evidently there have been rumors that all is not perfect for the couple, although there’s nothing unusual about that for many if not most married couples. However, the princess brought up her son and daughter breaking royal precedent by insisting that they not have titles. She wanted them to be free of the vagaries of royalty but instead to have real lives. Her version, of course.

She is an excellent horsewoman and a hardworking head of the International Save the Children even though she once remarked in an interview that she didn’t like children. Her daughter Zara Phillips, however, has said she would like to grow up to be as good a mother as her mother.
Xavier Veilhan, Debora, 2007.
A couple of weeks ago up in Lenox, Massachusetts there was a celebration for French artist Xavier Veilhan, the sculptor who most recently exhibited at the Palace of Versailles.

His latest exhibition, at The Mount, is called “Xavier Veilhan: Interacting with History.” The show, which is a prelude to next summer’s “French Salute to Edith Wharton” (which debuts in May 2011) features eight of M. Veilhan’s works and will be on display at The Mount through October.
Xavier Veilhan, Mobile, 2005.
Edith Wharton built The Mount in 1902 when she was forty, and lived there with her husband Edward “Teddy” Wharton. She had published her first novel, The Touchstone only two years before, but in 1897 she published The Decoration of Houses with her friend, architect and interior designer Ogden Codman along with Francis Hoppin.

The author designed her garden with additional assistance from her landscape architect cousin Beatrix Farrand. The original property was 113 acres, purchased for $40,600, with an additional 15 acres purchased (today the property consists of 49.5 acres). The Main House, inspired by Belton House, a 17th century Palladian style English country house, cost $57,619. Ogden Codman worked with her on the design of The Mount and it was built according to her principals. She wrote House of Mirth and Ethan Frome there.
The Mount.
Belton House, built in 1688, inspiration for The Mount.
Edith Wharton at the Mount
The marriage to Teddy Wharton was never a happy one for the author and in 1911 – the year she published Ethan Frome, she moved to Paris to live permanently where she cultivated friendships with Cocteau, Gide, Sinclair Lewis. Her house in Lenox went through several transitions over the course of the 20th century, from private residence to private school dorm. Ironically of its history of 108 years, its designer and original owner occupied it less than anyone else who came after.

Now the house has been restored and is a center of arts and culture in Lenox.
Xavier Veilhan. Paul Mathieu.
Michael McKinnon. Susan Wissler.
Deborah Bickman. Gordon Travers.
Dr. Ruth Baines. Barbara Herzberg and Allan Yarkin.
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