A quiet September weekend; A busy September week.
Sheep's Meadow in Central Park. Sunday, 4:45 PM.
Around the neighborhood. It was a beautiful September weekend in New York. Warm sunny days and balmy evenings of clear skies still with a clear sighting of Mars. Getting dark earlier now, by eight o’clock on Saturday evening, the sky was a dusky blue with streaks of fading pink clouds in the southern distance, setting off the silhouettes of the skyscrapers eighty blocks down. The three-quarter moon was bright. It cast a shiny wide white/yellow beam across dark and choppy surface of the East River rushing south. Its glow lit the faces of the neighbors who were standing along the railing of the John Finley Walk, looking up at Mars, still in awe of its presence.

The fall season in New York is just about to heat up. They got started last week but the fare was still light. Someone told me that the opening of the new Jimmy Choo store on Madison Avenue brought out so many (invited)(?) guests that there was a line around the block, waiting to get in. To a shoestore. You see why these businesses like a good public relations person?

In this late stage of Veblenesque social theories, we now have a society that is bonded to its retail consciousness. By which I mean, to put it more plainly: everyone’s out there selling something. A hundred years ago, in society there was a term used to describe those who were (forever) outside the ranks of the plutocrats. And that was “in trade.” Alexander Stewart, who had the first great department store in New York, and who built himself a magnificent mansion across the street from Mrs. Astor’s highly austere (and boring looking) brownstone on 34th and Fifth, was never accepted. Because he was “in trade.” Today he’d be sitting to the right of Brooke Astor (If he played his cards right and had a good PR person).

Getting ready for the busy week ahead
Meanwhile it’s ka-ching/ka-ching wherever I go. This week, on Tuesday, I will be participating in a panel discussion at Nextpert News Network’s Trends Breakfast II. The subject will be “The Power of Buzz and Gossip in Spreading The Word on New Products.”

The invitation refers to the panel as “”our world class experts,” and they include Dr. Robert Passikoff, an expert in “Brand Loyalty,” Pam Danziger, author of Why People Buy, and me, an expert on nothing but someone who’s always got an answer. I hope the paying guests will be pleased. I hope I can think of some juicy morsel of gossip to toss out to the breakfast clubbers. No one goes away hungry from these things if they’d had a bit of scoop; that much I know.

Back to business, the 21st century version of Steppin’ in Society:
Even that free world society glossy mag I edit, beacon of the New 400, Quest, will be holding a cocktail party with Gracious Home at their store on Third Avenue. On Tuesday. The September issue of Quest is the biggest ad-wise, in the seventeen year history of the magazine and don’t think some people aren’t rather pleased. Who wouldn’t? And Gracious Home, with its clever and highly effective advertising campaign by Peter Rogers, is a regular advertiser in Quest. So everybody’s happy.

Gracious Home, if you didn’t know, is the 21st-century version of a neighborhood hardware store. And not just any neighborhood. They have everything, of every variety and every price and it is all chic, first class, clever, fascinating and endlessly useful. Hardware stores and bookstores are the only stores which interest me. I stay away from Gracious Home as much as possible because I’d want everything (and I’d need it all).

They’re having their 40th anniversary this year and so everyone’s celebrating and Quest is helping them and it’s a lovefest. And we sure need as much of those as possible, no?

That same night over at LQ on 511 Lexington between 47th and 48th Street, Fcuk Fragrances is having a party for its fragrances: Fcuk Him and Fcuk Her. Now, I ask you ...? I mean, how do you say that? Eff-see-you-kay. It’s even hard to spell, or type out. The invite reads: “fcuk wants you to get SCENT TO BED ...” Hmmm ... is that all? And they have a website, if you’re not going to be in the neighborhood and have a need to know more: fcukfragrances.com.

Anyway, I won’t be there. I’ll be over at Gracious Home celebrating preferred customer relations and wishing I could buy something, a new pair of pliers, anything. And then a bunch of us are going to Donohue’s on 63rd and Lex for a real homestyle dinner party. Donohue’s is totally unchic and its old-style tall leather booths in the area beyond the bar draws the famous, the infamous, and the neighborhood. They all like the prices and the portions and the fact that they think it’s a secret and no one will ever see them there. That’s what they think.

Then on Wednesday morning, some people will be going over to “21” at Breakfast to hear Sixty Minutes producer Don Hewitt talk about how “Liberals Aren’t Liberals and Conservatives Aren’t Conservatives.” Hallelujah.

Then at lunchtime I’m going up to La Goulue where Henri Barguiirdjian, president of Graff, is hosting a luncheon in honor of Jamee Gregory and Leslie Jones who are co-chairman of the 15th annual Preview Party for the International Fine Art and Antique Dealers Show.

The Antique Show is one of the major social events at the beginning of every fall season in New York. It benefits the Society for Memorial Sloan Kettering and Gregory and Jones are members of that esteemed fund-raising arm of Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center. Graff, purveyor of amazing looking diamonds and jewels is a sponsor. The Preview Party brings out a lot of the crème de la crème of New York, especially the collectors who write out big checks to buy the pieces and objets at the Fair, so everybody’s happy, ka-ching ka-ching.

Then on Thursday there’s more and Friday even more, and that’s not counting the opening of the New York City Opera or the Museum of the City of New York’s annual Fall Dance with its scores of before the dance cocktail parties all over (the Upper East Side) of New York.

And then on Sunday, at Union Square Park, North Plaza the Great American Mutt Show is holding their annual Party with animal contests and pet adoption. If you’re an animal lover, or even if you just like dogs and cats, this is really fun. Lots of people bring their pooches and other pets and it’s a quadriped’s confab. And a joy, and even sometimes with a tear, and then more joy. It’s a great Sunday in New York city-wide neighborhood event. You’ll see amazing pets putting their best paws forward and you might even see a little lovebug or two you might take home to bring some joy into your life.



Photographs by Jeff Hirsch/NYSD.com

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