Thursday night past at The Frick and Tiffany & Co.
Outside on the front terrace of The Frick
Heidi Rosenau of The Frick
Last Thursday night was “Junior” night in New York on the Diary calendar. There was a cocktail party from 6 to 8 at The Frick for the Young Friends Of … It was the first time in all the years I’ve been going to The Frick where they opened up the front terrace that faces Fifth Avenue.

This was especially curious to me because the museum, despite its prominence and treasure, remains foremost Mr. Frick’s house — a place in which, late in life, he, a deeply serious and acquisitive man, was able to actualize his fanciful notions of grandness and beauty. So, to stand on the grassy terrace bordered by the high fence looking out at the darkened park, one could conjure up the little man (he was five-two) impressed by his palace.
Among The Frick Collection
The Frick has got to be one of the greatest of the small museums in the world. It is a gem in so many ways, full of great art and artisanship. It has steadily increased in popularity over its seventy-odd years as a public museum but still has a leisurely, private quality. It is never crowded, giving the visitor a sense of partaking of Mr. Frick’s personal achievement, and serenely, almost as if it were one’s own.
Elizabeth Belfer and Nathalie Gerschel Kaplan
The newly svelte Felicia Taylor and DPC
Charles Rockefeller and Andy McNichol
Jim Brodsky and Jill and Andrew Roosevelt and friends
Amy Hoadley, Jack Lynch, and Nancy Sambuco
L. to r.: Claire Fitzgerald photographs Edward and Bettina Mirsepahi; JH photographs Claire Fitzgerald with Edward and Bettina Mirsepahi.
L. to r.: Elisabeth de Kergorlay; The atrium at The Frick; A Frick delegate.
Lisa Selby, Mark Gilbertson, and Alex Lind Rose
After the Frick, JH and I hopped a cab and rode the fourteen blocks down to Tiffany where they were holding a cocktail party for the young friends of the ASPCA before their dinner dance over at the Rainbow Room.

This was a dressier crowd (the d/d was black tie) and there were some four-legged friends also attending with the hopes that some animal lovers might be persuaded to adopt for a permanent living status. It was there, just inside the main entrance that I met Rosie, a seven (or so) year old shih-tzu, who will be taking up residence with me and Missy and Buster next week.

I can’t resist the dogs and probably if someone caught me at the right time and place, the cats. I don’t know why more people don’t invite a couple of dogs or kitties to move in with them. It’s all love, all joy, 24/7, and unconditional – something that’s good for what ails any and all of us.
Melissa Gelman, Allison Luyten, and Kim Hicks
Amy Fine Collins and Peter Arnold
Leslie Stevens and friends
Elizabeth Ballard and friend
Mallory and Roy Kean
Geoffrey Bradfield and Helena Lehane
Amy Porter and Fernanda Kellogg
Carol Higgins Clark and Carol Belladora
Mark Welsh with Sweetie
Somers Farkas and Amy Fine Collins
Lise Arliss and Wibby Sevener
Kimberly Page and friend
Andrew Saffir, Bettina Zilkha, and Jeff Slonim
A Doggie bag
Rosie, who will soon be taking up residence with DPC



George Plimpton 1927 - 2003


George Plimpton died in his sleep last Thursday night here in Manhattan. He was seventy-six years old. Although I met him many times and even interviewed him once for a cable television program, I really didn’t know him other than as a passing figure in the New York cavalcade.

He was one of the great literary men of his age which was the last half of the 20th Century, not so much for his writing (which was fairly prolific) but especially for his lifelong work as editor of the Paris Review.

George Plimpton and Sara Whitehead Dudley at the PEN Literary Gala at The Pierre. April, 2003.
He also cut a wide swath on the New York scene, most welcome in the most exclusive (and/or expensive) drawing rooms and dining rooms. He was also a habitue of those places where the nighttime crowds congregate – discos, nightclubs, concert halls, restaurants; uptown, downtown, all around the town.

He gained fame as America’s most prominent amateur who wrote about his experiences as an athlete, musician, and/or actor who played with the pros and lived to write about it. He was always industrious and enterprising with his projects literary and cultural, but to this observer, he just always seemed to be having a good time taking it all in.

I often saw him at parties – cocktails, book parties, fund-raisers. He was very generous with his presence in supporting friends and causes. Tall and lanky, he often looked just a little bit disheveled like a professor at the end of his day. In the past few years it was interesting to see the longtime craggy yet boyish looks take on advancing age because despite the changes wrought by time, he never lost his youthful aura. George was essentially age-less.

His ancient mid-Atlantic accent was a reference to his Edwardian antecedents, including an early mentor, the late sportsman and bridge champion Harold Vanderbilt. He was born into old Massachusetts stock which traced its origins back to the Mayflower, a connection without peer in that world. He also came from great, old New England wealth (the Ames family) on his mother’s side. Unlike most people of his generation and crusty background, he was able to navigate comfortably down many roads, high and low, and count among his friends people from all walks of life.

It was a charmed life, no matter how you slice it. Intelligent, creative, full of bonhomie and camaraderie, and loaded with privilege unfamiliar to most of us. His celebrity, however, was not accidental but the result of a curious and perspicacious mind. He had the ability to learn from his experiences in the arena, and brought from them a shrewdness about conducting himself publicly. People will remember him as they knew him in life, a man who lived out his days to the fullest, always acquiring knowledge while reveling in whatever took his fancy.

Although he never attained great stardom or great wealth or highly lauded distinguished achievement, there were probably few with those attributes who were not in awe of his joie de vivre and the freedom with which it graced him.

The following is from the Telegraph in London.
George Plimpton, who died on Thursday aged 76, was a journalist and writer who became a celebrity for participating in his own stories; thus he boxed with a light heavyweight champion, performed with an eminent orchestra, joined a professional American football team and flew with trapeze artists in a circus.

These and other escapades made him one of the most famous men in America. Yet Plimpton was essentially a man of letters, and the real love of his life was the Paris Review, a quarterly literary magazine which he co-founded in 1953.

The magazine has a circulation of some 12,000, and has never made a profit. But it enjoys a formidable reputation as a journal willing to publish serious literary work: poetry, short stories and novellas, and in-depth interviews with well-known authors. Over the years Plimpton published names such as Beckett, Kerouac, Henry Miller and Philip Roth. The list of interviewees, meanwhile, is equally impressive. These have included such figures as E M Forster, Faulkner, Nabokov, Ezra Pound, Ernest Hemingway, Doris Lessing, Iris Murdoch and A S Byatt. Often the Paris Review is the only publication to which such writers are prepared to entrust their thoughts, valuing its integrity and its serious purpose. Scholars teaching English or American literature are known to direct their students towards the anthologies of the interviews which have appeared in the journal.

Plimpton also featured unknown writers whom he thought had talent, and is said to have ploughed his way through some 20,000 unsolicited manuscripts each year. He was, for example, the first to publish Jay McInerney, printing a chapter of his Bright Lights, Big City.

George Plimpton edited the Paris Review from an office below his flat overlooking the East River in Manhattan; in the office there was a chair nailed to the ceiling, a souvenir of his time attempting to become a lion tamer.

George Ames Plimpton, the son of a lawyer and diplomat, was born in New York on March 18 1927 and educated at the Phillips Exeter Academy, New Hampshire, and Harvard, where he read English. He then spent three years in the US Army, before coming to Britain to study at King's College, Cambridge.

In 1952 he went to Paris where, with two friends, he launched Paris Review before returning to America in the mid-1950s. What brought Plimpton to public attention, however, was his idea of assuming the role of the admiring amateur taking on the seasoned professional sportsman at his own game. This was a good enough idea in itself, but had the serious purpose of revealing things which could not be perceived by a mere observer.

One of Plimpton's chosen arenas was boxing. In 1959 he took on the light heavyweight champion Archie Moore, lasting three rounds, during which he suffered no more than a broken nose. Plimpton next turned his attention to tennis, at which Pancho Gonzalez beat him 6-0. Plimpton also arranged to pitch to eight star batters in the American baseball leagues. Naturally, he was hit all over the park, and his ensuing book, Out of My League (1961) was described by Hemingway as "beautifully observed . . . this account of a self-imposed ordeal has the chilling quality of a self-imposed nightmare".

Although he had not played American football since his college days, in 1963 Plimpton decided to join a professional football team. Accepted by the Detroit Lions, he failed to persuade Lloyd's of London to grant him insurance. When he made his debut as a quarterback in an exhibition match, he lost 29 yards in five plays.

His book Paper Lion (1966) told the story of these experiences, and was hailed by one reviewer as "possibly the most arresting and delightful narrative in all of sports literature". The film rights to the book were bought for $50,000. When the picture came out in 1968, Alan Alda was in the starring role, with Plimpton playing Bill Ford, the owner of the Detroit Lions. (He had already had a walk-on part in Lawrence of Arabia, and later appeared in cameo roles in films such as Rio Lobo, alongside John Wayne, Reds and Good Will Hunting, as well as in the television drama series ER).

Plimpton also tried his hand at golf, participating as an amateur in three tournaments on America's West Coast. The results were recorded in his book The Bogey Man (1968).

Sport was not the only arena to attract him. He enrolled with the New York Philharmonic as a percussionist, learning to play the triangle, bells, bass drum and gong, and featured in a performance of Mahler's Symphony No 4 in Montreal. Plimpton admitted: "I utterly destroyed [the symphony] by not watching the beat." He went on to perform as a trapeze artist in a circus, and to lose at chess against Garry Kasparov.

A Democrat in his politics, Plimpton was a friend of the Kennedys (JFK admired his abilities as a conversationalist), and helped Robert Kennedy in his bid for the presidential nomination in 1968 - he was present at the senator's assassination in Los Angeles, and wrestled the pistol out of Sirhan Sirhan's hand.

Plimpton stood 6 ft 4 ins tall and was a man of old-world charm who, in his younger days, was frequently seen in the company of beautiful women such as Ava Gardner, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis and Lee Radziwill.

He wrote or edited more than 50 books, was a distinguished ornithologist, a keen yachtsman and a real tennis enthusiast.

He was appointed a Chevalier of the Légion d'Honneur. In 2002 he was made a member of the American Academy of Arts and Letters.

In 1968 George Plimpton married Freddy Medora Espy, a photographer's assistant. They divorced in 1988, and he later married Sara Whitehead Dudley. He had four children.



Photographs by Jeff Hirsch/NYSD.com

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