The snow is melting
Looking northwest towards the Empire State Building and Times Square. 10:15 PM. Photo: JH using a Sony DSC-V1 Cyber-shot digital camera.
Paris sizzles. The sun came out on Monday in New York and melted away most of the snow on the streets. I went to lunch at Michael’s which was jammed. Steve Millington, the manager of the restaurant, was very excited to report that tomorrow (today, Tuesday), Paris Hilton is expected at lunch.

One of my lunch partners revealed that she had “seen the video” because one day when she walked into her office, her young daughter was at the computer surrounded by friends “looking” at it. She then had her daughter email it to her friends with the message: “my mother told me to send you this.”

Paris Hilton at her 21st birthday party.
Then everybody who’d seen it (I have not) expressed their awe over the boyfriend Rick Solomon’s private (and now public) endowment. Someone else told me that for years Mr. Solomon’s friends’ nickname for him was “Scum.” Which is short for Scumbalaya. Or something cute like that.

I have known Paris Hilton since she was a thirteen or fourteen year old in Southampton in the summertime. When I say “known,” I mean I’ve been in the same room with her (and dozens of others) at her parents’ houses (the mother, Kathy is the personality in the family).

I’ve been interviewed on a half dozen television shows about her and her sister Nicky and the little I have to say about her remains ripe fodder for the mill. I have never had a conversation with Paris beyond the perfunctory courtesies. To me she has always been a polite, even diffident pretty blonde girl who is very close to her parents and has a well known ambition to be an actress which her parents supported 1000%.

I’ve always been amazed that such a personality could create such a huge celebrity. So it gave me pause to consider her in Michael’s for lunch, in the presence of media moguls, editors, publishers, businessmen and entertainment honchos (Norm Pearlstine of Time was there yesterday, for example, as was Sam Cohn, William Lauder and Stan Shuman).

Although after listening to my friends’ amusement and curiosity about the great “community leer” that the sex tape became, I kinda wished I was going to be there. It should be a kick watching all those sophisticated ones, suddenly boys and girls, buzzing like schoolkids over the blonde actress at the corner table (where the whole restaurant can get a look) with her agent. While the two will be talking business, just like rest of the room would be if Paris Hilton weren’t there.
Yesterday was a full day of events in New York for Governor Howard Dean MD, “Democratic Candidate for President of the United States.” Billed by the campaign as “Howard Hits Town!” there was a breakfast at the National Black Theater’s Institute of Action Art at 8 in the morning, a lunch in Queens at the Foundry at noon, a “Roast” dinner hosted by Rob Reiner at the Metropolitan Pavilion on West 18th at 7, a Coffee Dessert & Comedy with Janeane Garofalo, Andrea Martin, David Cross, John Leguizamo at the North Pavilion on West 19th and then a “Downtown Dean Series at Roseland on West 52nd from 9 until midnight.

A friend of mine who is a big supporter of Dean invited me to the “Roast” so I could see and hear the candidate for the first time. I am one of those who has never seen or heard Dr. Governor Dean “live,” since I rarely watch television. I’ve read about him and read interviews with him but had no visceral impression of the man.

There must have been several hundred people at the dinner – tables of eight, with a big committee list including some names I recognized: Boaty Boatwright, Estrelita and Dan Brodsky, Charmaine and Carter Burden, Andree Corroon, Eve Ensler, Patricia Duff, Richard Feigen, Peter Georgescu, Marife Hernandez, Nicholas Katzenbach, Cheri Kaufman, George Kennan, Jane Curtin, Mark Patricof, Kathy Sloane, Podie Lynch and Jim Torrey, Diane Straus Tucker and Carl Tucker, Bill vanden Heuvel, Olive Watson.

The “Roast” was tame. Very. Although Rob Reiner is great. Just makes you laugh with his good-natured charm. Grey, bald on top with a well-maintained salt and pepper beard, wearing a grey business suit and tie, I didn’t recognize him at first. He was dressed like, and has the bearing of, a very prosperous Hollywood studio executive but he makes you think he must be a great guy to hang out with. He was the emcee. He’s been supporting Dean since Day One.

He introduced the “roasters” which included Dean’s brother Jimmy, along with his headmaster from St. George’s School which Dean attended, and one of Dean’s roommate from Yale, an African-American man from Charleston, South Carolina.

Afterwards, the candidate got up. Although I had never seen him “live,” he looked exactly as I had imagined: easy on the eye, not tall, clean-faced, sharp and clear-eyed and serious. A man with a sense of humor, yes; but a no-nonsense guy.

His speech, which I was later told is the standard speech, was about “community.” Hearing it for the first time resonated with me because I think about that word all the time, and I’m always looking for it in a world that often seems devoid of it.

The personality transforms when it gets down to the speech. He’s utterly serious and resolute. And, as I said, no nonsense. People have compared him to George McGovern. I worked in the McGovern campaign and it was full of passion, as were those times. But Governor Dean is a very different personality from McGovern. The similarity in their campaigns is that he’s fired up a lot of the youth in a way that we haven’t seen since those days, and this is always a very hopeful sign for the community.

Both those boys, Bush and Dean, were at Yale at the same time. To hear tell about Dean’s college career and Bush’s college career is to hear about two distinctly different personalities from remarkably similar socio-economic backgrounds. They were both members of the American WASP elite, the establishment families of the Northeast. Many of us have always known boys like them in college and later in life. To see them up against each other in a Presidential race, if that is what it comes to (which at this moment many people think it will), will be very interesting. And unlike George McGovern, whose race against Richard Nixon was an unfortunate and foregone conclusion almost from the outset, Dean and Bush may be a real race to the finish. McGovern was courageous as an individual but with a gentle demeanor and presentation that was often mistaken as ineffecting. Dean is tough; of that there can be no doubt. Gentle maybe, probably – he was a physician – but tough. Not at all dissimilar in many ways to Bush’s tough.

It was over by quarter to nine. Afterwards I walked over to Park Avenue South, so that I could have a brief look-see at a part of town that I don’t see much and which never fails to fascinate. My cabdriver heard me on the cell telling a friend where I’d just been. When I was finished, he started talking to me about Dean, and Bush, and politics. He was a Turk, although now living here for a long time. He was worried about the Shiites in Iraq. Worried about them coming to power. He called them “Iran 2,” adding that he was Muslim, to give me an idea of his point of view.

This is New York. Sometimes, like yesterday, I think this is the greatest community in the world.


Sunday in the snow



Photographs by Jeff Hirsch/NYSD.com

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