Best Dressed and Dressed Best

Looking East on Houston and Allen. Photo: JH.
A piece of social history.

Amy Fine Collins
has written a fine piece in the April issue of Vanity Fair on the late fashion public relations empress Eleanor Lambert who died two months after her 100th birthday last October (see NYSD 10/8/03).

Eleanor started the International Best Dressed list here in New York in 1940 at the onset of the Second World War. She took up the idea from a previous French-oriented Best Dressed List that came to an end when France fell to the Nazis. She launched it with the intention of promoting American fashion and its designers. This was both a practical and revolutionary idea, and with it Eleanor transformed the garment industry into the world-famous fashion business.

Eleanor Lambert

She was a woman who loved her business and was able to work at it right up to the last year of her life. In 2002, the year before she died, approaching her centenary, Eleanor anointed Vanity Fair and four of its editors – Mrs. Collins, Aimee Bell, Graydon Carter and Reinaldo Herrera – with the future of the List.

Their first International Best Dressed List is published in this current issue, with Ms. Fine Collins’ profile of its creator and her creation.

The point of the List since inception was to publicize fashion and promote sales. In its earliest years it was dominated by very rich women and/or socialites, members of royalty, and occasionally a movie star (Rosalind Russell was the first). Ten years later the number of movie stars had increased substantially. As times changed, so did the List. International stars of fashion who reigned for three decades died out and were replaced by younger people who had a far different sensibility and attitude toward dress.

I served on Eleanor’s committee for several years,
and quite possibly will never be asked to serve again after writing this. The list is not a democratic document, although it is (sort of) democratically created. We’d meet at Eleanor’s Fifth Avenue apartment about eleven in the morning. There might be sixteen or twenty of us.

The core group was the same every year although Eleanor invited newcomers, people who had made some kind of mark on the fashion media scene. Some of the core people were members of the List from other years. Many were well-turned out, in the traditional sense.

Occasionally there would be someone whose costume was at odds with the popular concept of well-dressed. Or at least very imaginative. At times there were those of this faction who were imbued with an “all-thumbs” sense of self-importance. They could be depended on to stretch everyone else, fashion-wise. This was jarring perhaps, but good. Change is serene only in retrospect.

By the time I was participating, Eleanor who thought Gloria Guinness was the most elegant woman she ever knew, was well into her nineties, and Courtney Love had made the List. Nevertheless, when it came to New Ideas, Eleanor swung with the times – with caution but never a hint of trepidation, and with a deftness lacking in many of us thirty, even forty or more years younger.

Sally Albemarle
Sofia Coppola
Aerin Lauder

The decision as to who becomes a member of the Best Dressed List is simple. It’s what we used to call in high school, a popularity contest. Ballots are distributed throughout the industry, media and society – people are asked to “nominate” ten or fifteen. These ballots are returned, tabulated and the preliminary list is printed out for the committee.

There were usually a large number of nominations – 30 or 40 – if memory serves in the ballots’ list. The nominees are very rarely unknown to most if not all. They are many of the same names we see in the fashion magazines or people magazines (or on NYSD).

Each name is then discussed. Some more quickly than others. You can tell immediately if someone in the group starts talking rapturously of the “nominee” (“oh they have the most beautiful house in the South of France, she entertains like a dream, her taste is impeccable, she’s another Babe Paley, her great-grandmother was the Queen of Sheba ...” You know she’s On.

Certain committee members have more aggressive personalities, and their thoughts can command the room. One year when the name of a very well known and very social New York woman came up. Someone instantly said: “no, no, no! She’s awful.” Little disagreement raised in the room.

But then, another longtimer (and member of the List) said: “She’s very well dressed, she is always well-groomed, she looks marvelous in the clothes and she spends a lot of money on them, which helps everybody all around. You just don’t like her and that’s not a reason to keep someone Off.”

“ No, no, no,” replied the other, standing firm. There was a brief and very amicable discussion and the lady’s name was dropped. Probably forever.

By about 12:30, we’d have one of the lists – the women’s or the men’s – completed, and everyone would head for the dining room where Eleanor had a delicious home-prepared buffet laid out for us. After lunch, we’d go through the second list.

I was always struck by the contrast of the image
of The Best Dressed that I grew up with (conjured up for me, although unbeknownst to me, by Eleanor Lambert, and the actual process of putting it together). The fashion sensibility that I grew up with – the Cary Grants, Fred Astaires, the Babe Paleys and Gloria Guinnesses – no longer applied. And very often conflicted with my native sensibilities. I was also naively surprised to see that so many of each year’s candidates were pretty much “flavor of the month,” so to speak, whatever their provenance. The hottest star, the newest playgirl heiress. The “sophisticated” pace-setters, style-makers on the committee mainly turned out to be just as starry-eyed and goofy over the “latest” as the kids in Orange County.

I don’t think the Best Dressed List has any fashion influence these days because its members are neither astonishing nor awesome as they used to be to these (then much younger) eyes. However, they are handsome and/or sexy and/or sartorially easy on the eye, and let’s not forget rich and famous. And fashion is phenomenal, as Joseph Alsop once wrote. It is a sociological barometer, which is exactly what Eleanor Lambert thought when she told an interviewer years ago that the Best Dressed List was “a piece of social history.”

“ You cannot separate people, their yearnings, their dreams and their inborn vanity from an interest in clothes,” Eleanor is quoted by Amy Fine Collins at the end of the piece. The last word. I went back and looked over the 2004 International Best Dressed List again. Eleanor would have loved it; I think she was right.


2004 International Best Dressed List

• Sally, Countess of Albemarle
• Cate Blanchett
• Marina Rust Connor
• Sofia Coppola
• HRH Princess Olga of Greece
• HM Queen Rania of Jordan
• Jemima Khan
• Kate Moss
• Oprah Winfrey
• Aerin Lauder Zinterhofer
• Jonathan Becker
• David Beckham
• George Clooney
• Sean Combs
• Anderson Cooper
• Lapo Elkann
• HRH Crown Prince Pavlos of Greece
• Jude Law
• Bernard-Henri Levy
• Brian Williams

Elevated to International Best Dressed List Hall of Fame

• Eliza Reed Bolen
• Maxime de la Falaise
• Susan Fales-Hill
• Nicole Kidman
• Tom Ford


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Queen of Clean The Closet Queen
Kim Ahktar in her closet
Kim Ahktar is a partner in a business called Garde Robe which advertises on the New York Social Diary. Garde Robe, if you haven’t checked out the ad, is in the storage business, providing protected spaces for keeping unworn clothes clean and fresh.

The first time I went down to see the Garde Robe facilities I was amazed by the organization and the immaculate environment. One day at lunch I asked her what her own closet was like. Was it as organized and impeccable?

Yes, was the answer. But because, she explained, there came a time about two years ago when she first started Garde Robe, that she became aware of her own closet dilemma. With Garde Robe, everything that is stored is in a book and online. “I saw how streamlining made a difference for others.”
Kim pared her inventory down and redesigned her closet to half its former size. Everything is arranged according to designer.
She had too many clothes. They took up too much space. She’d store them with a cleaner after each season and it got so, she couldn’t remember what she had. “All these beautiful things and I don’t really know what I’ve got,” she said to herself. And it was hugely expensive. She felt she had too much, more than she ever needed, more than she even knew.

Kim with Dougall

She decided to divest and streamline. Anything she hadn’t worn in a year – out. She knew people who either needed it or would buy it. She pared her inventory way down and redesigned her closet to half its former size. Everything is arranged according to designer. She favors Armani, Tom Ford for Gucci and Yves, Dolce & Gabbana, Valentino, Prada, Zac Posen and Versace. The boots and shoes are all Jimmy Choo “I’ve never gone over to the Manolo side,” she said, “I don’t know why that is.”

Kim, who is executive assistant to Dan Rather, is a flamenco dancer by avocation and now performs for friends and fans several times a year here in Manhattan. Her dance costumes are stored at Garde Robe because they’re so big. Otherwise in a relatively small space she keeps everything at her fingertips and with easy, non-stressful reach.

Garderobeonline.com or call 212-227-7554.

Kim flamenco dancing


J. Mendel and Bergdorf Goodman held a preview of the J. Mendel Spring 2004 Collection to benefit Safe Horizon
Anne Grauso, Susan Fales-Hill, Somers Farkas, Cynthia Lufkin, Muffie Potter Aston, Felicia Taylor, and Valesca Guerrand-Hermes
J . Mendel and and Bergdorf Goodman held a preview of the J. Mendel Spring 2004 Ready To Wear and fur Collections at their new boutique in the store. A percentage of the proceeds from the evening’s sales went to Safe Horizon, the nation’s leading victim assistance organization.

Lauren Thierry Watkins
Hosts were Muffie Potter Aston, Cynthia Lufkin, Susan Fales-Hill, Anne Grauso, Valesca Guerrand-Hermes, Somers Farkas, Felicia Taylor, designer Gilles Mendel and Gordon J. Campbell. Among the guests: The Sopranos star Oksana Lada, Victoria’s Secret model Larisa Bond, Amanda Hearst, Gillian and Lydia Hearst, CeCe Cord, Diana Quasha, Rachel Hovnanian, Eva Dillon, Stephanie Bernbach, Marcia and Richard Mishaan, designer Anne Bowen, artist Joseph La Piana, Lisa Jackson and Robert Watman.

J. Mendel has just recently presented its first runway collection collection, during New York Fashion Week on February. The show debuted the ready-to-wear collection, which Gilles Mendel recently created at the helm of this fifth generation house – known traditionally for its furs. The Spring Collection has appeared on celebrities such as Jennifer Lopez, Liv Tyler and Jessica Simpson.

Safe Horizon is the nation’s leading nonprofit victim assistance, advocacy and violence prevention organization. Safe Horizon’s mission is to provide support, prevent violence, and promote justice for victims of crime and abuse, their families and communities. Founded in 1978, Safe Horizon offers more than 80 programs throughout New York City's five Boroughs, over telephone hotlines and in community offices, shelters, courts, police precincts and schools. Each year, Safe Horizon helps more than 350,000 crime victims become survivors.
Lisa Airan, Gilles Mendel, and Linda Fargo
Cynthia Lufkin, Dale Haddon, Nicole Miller, and Cece Cord
Valesca Guerrand-Hermes
Tracy Stern and Patrick McDonald
Tinsley Mortimer and Gilles Mendel
Muffie Potter Aston and Grace Hightower
Stacey Bendet Wiener
Patty and Ashley Raines
Oksana Lada
Lisa Airan
Muffie Potter Aston
Annie Churchill and Gillian Hearst
Anne Grauso
Gordon J. Campbell and Stephanie March
Cynthia and Dan Lufkin with Rachel Hovnanian



March 11, 2004, Volume IV, Number 39
Photographs by Jeff Hirsch/NYSD.com and Billy Farrell/PMc (J. Mendel).

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