A Sunny Tuesday
Looking north on 3rd Avenue towards 54th Street. 2:25 PM. Photo: JH.

Yesterday afternoon we went, along with scores, maybe hundreds of others, to pay our respect to the family of Estee Lauder who passed away over the weekend. Mrs. Lauder was a legendary figure whose intensely focused sensory talents ultimately created one of the greatest cosmetic empires of the 20th Century. She also, I was told, loved chocolate.

The subject of chocolates came up because among the canapes passed around on silver trays by waiters in white jackets, were chocolates ... which were very good. I know because I helped myself to more than one until I had to tell the waiter to take them away ... although not before asking him if he knew where they came from. A few minutes later a very friendly man came by and introduced himself as Mrs. Lauder’s cousin Owen.

These chocolates, he told us, were his discovery. He lives in the Midwest, somewhere between Milwaukee and Chicago, and one day, years ago, on a business trip he passed a small shop called Riverside Chocolates and stopped in to sample the product. They were so good that he ordered a box for his cousin who, on sampling, proclaimed them the best chocolates she’d ever had.

A couple of years ago, passing by Riverside on another business trip, Owen stopped in and ordered another box sent to his cousin in New York who was by then, in her mid-90s, in frail health and homebound. One afternoon, on her waking from a nap, Mrs. Lauder’s nurse brought her a few pieces of the Riverside chocolate for snack without telling her of their origin.

She took one bite and her eyes lit up: “why these are cousin Owen’s chocolates!” she enthused.

Timothy White and Joe Pantoliano last night at The Plaza for City Harvest's Practical Magic Ball
Last night was a beautiful night in New York and a busy one as well. There was a book party over at the Four Seasons restaurant for Tina Santi Flaherty’s new book What Jackie Taught Us; Lessons from the Remarkable Life of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. Over at Le Cirque, Nancy Curry O’Shaughnessy and Fordham University Press hosted a party for the publication of William O’Shaughnessy’s More Riffs, Rants, and Raves. Lots of interesting personalities joining the interesting personality/authors of those two books – but more on that tomorrow. Over at the Plaza the Skowhegan School was holding its 33rd annual awards dinner. At the Metropolitan Club, the London Symphony Orchestra was holding its centenary gala and down at Gotham Hall on Broadway and 36th Street, the Boys Club of New York was holding its annual Spring dance – this one called “Passage to India.” You can guess what the costumes were like for that one. But more on all that later in the week.

For I went over to The Pierre where City Harvest was holding its annual fundraising gala, “The Practical Magic Ball.” If you’re a regular reader of this column you already know about City Harvest, but in case you aren’t let me reiterate.

Topsy Taylor, Kitty McNight, and Emilia Saint-Amand
City Harvest is in the business of collecting the food that’s left over at the end of the day from restaurants and banquets (galas like these) at hotels and clubs, and re-distributing it all over New York. You may have seen their big white trucks with the green logo around the town. There are fifteen of them running everyday and they serve more than 800 community programs, helping to feed 200,000 people each week.

This year’s host was CNN’s American Morning co-anchor Bill Hemmer who is new to the city and new to City Harvest, although from the sound of him, he’s sold on both. Special Guest for the evening was author and humorist Calvin Trillin who gave a short but very funny talk on American cuisine, namely a once ubiquitous dish called “chicken a la king” which he claimed crossed all boundaries and class lines in America. If I could remember his monologue I could crack you up the way he cracked up the audience.

There was a three minute video presentation about a day in the life of City Harvest driver, Angel De Latorre and introduced by photographer Timothy White. Then there were two awards presented, each to two honorees – The Star of the City Award which went to Florence Davis of the Starr Foundation and Leslie Koch, of the New York City Department of Education, and the Heart of the City Award which went to New York Times food writer Molly O’Neill and to actor Joe Pantoliano, one of the stars of “The Sopranos” until he was “offed” in a recent episode.

Like many of the charity galas, this was a fancy dress occasion – many of the women in long dresses, elegantly and fashionably turned out and men in black tie. Honorary co-chairs were Glenn Close and Robert F. Kennedy Jr. Dinner Chair was Timothy White and Journal Chair was Arthur Backal. The Co-chairs of the evening, the women who make this engine run year after year after year and get everyone else (including yours truly) involved, are as fashionable and elegant as they come and never fail to roll up their sleeves and produce a winning evening (this year they raised $550,000) – Carol Atkinson, Joy Ingham, Heather Mnuchin, Emilia Saint-Amand and Topsy Taylor.

A million and a half New Yorkers don’t get enough to eat everyday without assistance from people like City Harvest. Florence Davis, the straight-talking director of the Starr Foundation presented the picture very clearly. Four years ago they did a study which showed that a family of two adults and two children in the Bronx needed to earn $11.38 an hour to feed themselves daily (and take care of their other basic living expenses). In Kings County (Brooklyn) that figure is $16 an hour. In Upper Manhattan, it’s $22 an hour. Minimum wage is still $5.50. Most jobs for people who are on welfare don’t get much higher than $8 an hour. That means in order to eat, other necessities have to be forsaken – be it rent, heat, electricity or all of the above. And many of those million and a half New Yorkers in need are children, or elderly who have no chance of making a financial difference. City Harvest saves lives EVERY DAY. As Mrs. Davis pointed out, it’s impossible for people – meaning any of us – to rescue themselves if they don’t have basic subsistence to begin with.

A good many of us are fortunate enough to be living outside that realm of lack and loss. Many of us who’ve experienced it at one time in our lives even forget what it’s like once we’ve escaped it. It’s time to remind, to remember and to give. Give back. City Harvest can help us do that.

www.cityharvest.org
Emilia Saint-Amand, Joy Ingham, Joe Pantoliano, Heather Mnuchin, Bill Hemmer, Topsy Taylor, Carol Atkinson, and Julia Erickson
Kitty and Bill McKnight
David Scharf and Susan Blond
Jon Ingham, Betsy Bartlett, and Jones York
Steve Cohen entertains Arthur Backal and friends with a magic trick
Rainer and Regina Greeven with Eli and Barbara Hoffman
Valerie Romanoff and the Starlight Orchestra
Joy and Jon Ingham
Calvin Trillin
Honoree Florence Davis
Honoree Leslie Koch
Susan Bell
Mimi Sheraton
Honoree Molly O'Neill

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April 28, 2004, Volume IV, Number 71
Photographs by Jeff Hirsch & DPC/NYSD.com

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