New York nights, uptown and down.
The ninth annual Acria Holiday dinner was held last night at the Stephan Weiss Studio in Greenwich Village. 9:00 PM. Photo: JH.
First stop, with JH and the Digital: a book party in the reception room of 1A East 77 Street for Renée Fleming who has written a memoir about how it all came about. Called The Inner Voice; The Making of A Singer, it was written with Ann Patchett, edited by Rick Kot, and published by Viking Press. Ms. Fleming, who needed no introduction of course, was nevertheless introduced by Beverly Sills who after her brief introduction read a poem she had written (in the car on her way to the party no less) about the new author.

The Inner Voice; The Making of A Singer. Click cover to order.
A very clever and touching poem, I might add, continuing to amaze everyone about the diverse creative talents of Madame Sills.

Opera folk and their fans are a very special crowd, and this one last night brought out a lot of the big gun supporters of the Metropolitan Opera Guild who, like all opera fans given the opportunity, couldn’t resist showing up for a quick up-close-and-personal with the great operatic soprano. She is so beautiful and glamorous looking in real life, and has such an unassuming air about her that everyone was enthralled. Everyone also got a signed copy of the book which is debuted last month and is running out of the bookstores. Opera fans are not only loyal, but devoted.
L. to r.: Fleming's editor Rick Kot; Lord Jacob Rothschild and Mercedes Bass; Renée Fleming.
Mercedes Bass, Lord Jacob Rothschild, and Sydney Shuman
Duane Hampton
Nancy Ellison and Bill Rollnick with Beverly Sills
L. to r.: Sid Bass, Freddie Melhado, Lyn Nesbit, and Shirley Lord; Freddie Melhado and Barbara Walters.
Leonard Lauder and Alexis Gregory as the mystery man
Susan Braddock and Win Rutherfurd
Barbara Walters and Mercedes Bass
Bob Hormats and Faye Wattleton
Lee Annenberg and Freddie Melhado
Frank Langella
Next stop: four blocks down the avenue to the old Joseph Pulitzer mansion, designed and built in 1903 by McKim, Mead & White for the legendary newspaper publisher, where John and Francie Train were having a book party for Mr. Train’s newest (and 21st) book, The Olive – Tree of Civilization. The book is a fascinating study of the ancient fruit and its link to the growth of western civilization up to the present day proclivities: the perpetration of one of the most complicated crimes ever in the history of Wall Street.

The Olive — Tree of Civilization. Click cover to order.
Mr. Train’s book party was quite different in flavor from that of the opera devotees just up the avenue. Co-hosted with his wife Francie (who is also the mother of Whitney and Harry Tower), and filled with old friends and family, such as Nicholas Platt, retired head of the Asia Society who is now writing his first book – a memoir of China. Mr. Platt once served as American Ambassador to Pakistan, the Philippines and Zambia and traveled with President Nixon on his first trip to China in 1973.

In the crowd: Countess Antoinette Guerini-Maraldi who will be traveling for the holidays to London with her daughter Jennifer; Eleanor Dwight, who’s written biographies of Edith Wharton and Diana Vreeland, and was with her husband George who has known John Train since their days at Groton. Also Alta and Dan Thorne, Catie Marron, Rita Gimbel, Alexis Gregory (who’d been at the Fleming party also); Emmanuela and James Girard IV; John Train’s daughter, Lisa Train Pinnington, who is visiting from London, and her sister Musa Train Klebnikov (widow of the Forbes journalist who was tragically slain in Moscow recently), as well as their mother, Mr. Train’s first wife, (and also the publisher of his new book), Maria Teresa, who also has a house in Florence. There were many Italian friends who stopped by and a lot of their language and conviviality in the room.
John Train with Maria Teresa
Gerry Fabricant
John Train with Francie Train
The Trains’ apartment in the old mansion is partly made up of what was originally the Rotunda and breakfast rooms of the house, which also lead out onto a garden, and are now John Train’s sitting room and library. When Mr. Pulitzer was building the house he was suffering from an acute hearing affliction that magnified all sounds to the point of anguish. McKim, Mead & White installed double windows and doors throughout the four-story mansion. There were ballbearings installed to keep everything that moved as muffled as possible, and in the end Mr. Pulitzer (who pronounced the house a disaster), moved out to St. Louis where he owned the Post-Dispatch. The house remained unoccupied for decades thereafter and was eventually turned into apartments (very luxurious apartments) of varying sizes. John Train, who grew up in a house just down the block, recalls the great, big empty house that he would one day live in. Because of Mr. Pulitzer's requirements, today Mr. Trains library (eighteen feet from floor to ceiling) is enveloped in quietness.
We left the Trains’ book party and walked a few more blocks down and around the corner to Virginia Mailman’s where she was holding a holiday Open House (with cocktails and buffet) from 6 till 9. Mrs. Mailman’s house was decorated with bowers of seasonal flowers, shiny holiday ornaments, swags of pine boughs wrapping the banister of the staircase winding from floor to floor, red ribbons and candles burning. This was a traditional holiday open house, the likes of which people will be experiencing all over the nation during the next couple of weeks; warm, cozy, with the aroma of ample buffets filling the rooms, maybe fires blazing in the fireplaces, maybe Christmas trees of varying sizes, maybe Christmas classic music in the background; lots of drinks, lots of conversation. It was the kind of party where you could just settle in for a comfortable evening. But we had other commitments, downtown at Donna Karan’s loft in the Village.
Christmas decorations adorn a house on 73rd and Between Fifth and Madison Avenue
Virginia Mailman on her staircase with a portrait of Christabel behind
Ross Bleckner, Bob Colacello, Carolina and Reinaldo Herrera, Donna Karan and Charla Lawhorn hosted the 9th annual Acria Holiday dinner with Friends at the Stephan Weiss Studio with cocktails called for 7:30 and dinner at 9. This was a very cool dinner in a magnificent loft space which belonged to Donna Karan’s late beloved husband Stephan Weiss who used the space dually for his motorcycle collection and for his own sculpture work studio.

Ross Bleckner
ACRIA, the AIDS Community Research Initiative of America which was founded in 1991, studies new treatments for HIV and AIDS-related diseases and also conducts a comprehensive HIV treatment education program. ACRIA has helped to make seven new AIDS drugs available to people living with AIDS, as well as providing treatment information to countless persons worldwide.

Ross Bleckner is the president of its board of directors and has worked devotedly for years for the cause. Other board members include Dr. Donald Kotler, Charles Franchino, Vincent William Gagliostro, Marisa Cardinale, Bob Colacello, Dr. Douglas Dieterich, Tiffany Dubin, Reinaldo Herrera, Kevin Krier, Adam Lippes, Mark J. Montgomery, Martha Nelson, and Maer Roshan.

Last night’s guests included a large contingent from the art community – artists, gallery owners and dealers, and collectors. There must have been more than 200 enjoying this industrial sized, extraordinarily luxurious loft space. Among the crowd: Francisco Costa, Nan Kempner, Bryce Dallas Howard, Hope Atherton, Jane Lauder, David Salle, Sally and Rufus Albemarle, Helen and Brice Marden, Anne McNally, Veronica Hearst, Sam and Judy Peabody, Doug Cramer, Hugh Bush, Jay Johnson and Tom Cashin, Tiffany and Louis Dubin, Marjorie and Reza Raein, Matthew Williamson, Derek Lam, Sandy Gallin, Douglas Hannant, Fred Anderson, Donald Baechler, Mary Boone, Suzanne and Bob Cochran.

The dinner, served at three long tables, with each side numbered, and everyone placed, was catered by Taste: Parmesan baskets filled with wild field greens, whipped chevre, wild mushrooms and pear tomatoes with a balsamic glaze; Short ribs braised with cabernet sauvignon and fresh horseradish, crispy risotto cake, winter vegetable bundles and for dessert: warm chocolate brioche bread pudding served with vanilla custard and bittersweet chocolate sauces.

They raised $200,000 for the cause.
The exterior of the Stephan Weiss Studio
Zooming in on the dinner table
Mary Boone, Doug Cramer, and Sandy Gallin
Aileen Mehle and Reinaldo Herrera from across the room
Veronica Hearst
Debbie Bancroft and Leslie Klotz
Bob Colacello
Tiffany Dubin and Kevin Krier
Judy and Sam Peabody
Suzanne and Bob Cochran with Ross Bleckner
Vanessa von Bismarck
Sculptures line the studio
Sally Albemarle
L. to r.: Frederick Anderson, Leslie Klotz, Muffie Potter Aston, and Douglas Hannant; Jay Johnson, Deborah Hughes, and Tom Cashin; Nan Kempner.
Alexandra Kotur and Rufus Albemarle
Muffie Potter Aston and Ted Kruckel
Brian O'Connor and Marcus Teo

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I meet many, many people in my business, often rushing from one place to another; many of whom I see frequently, yet rarely get to know beyond a hello. And indeed, in this world that I cover there are many who manage to quite clearly avoid even a hello, no matter how frequent the encounter. Then there are those whom I see often enough that sometimes a bit of an acquaintanceship develops – the friendly face of a neighbor who always has a pleasant greeting – people whom you don’t know but find irresistibly likeable.

Honore and Karl Wamsler
Honore Wamsler was one of those people. I first met her a few years ago when she was honored at a dinner dance at the New York Botanical Garden. She and her husband Karl had been an active supporters of the Botanical for years and she was an avid gardener and amateur botanist. More interestingly, to me, she was an American who had married a German man (Mr. Wamsler) forty years before, and had moved to Germany to make a life there.

The Wamslers had a family (I think four daughters) and this very American woman integrated herself graciously into a European life. As time passed and her children began to grow up, she and her husband began to divide their time more between Germany and New York. In the last several years, they were often on hand at a variety of charity galas here. I think I last saw Honore last spring at the Central Park Conservancy luncheon.

I really only knew her to exchange hellos, but her manner was so remarkably, consistently gracious that she left her mark just by her presence — elegant yet not effusive, just friendly and warm.

So it was with great sadness that I read in yesterday’s Times that Honore Wamsler passed away peacefully earlier this week at New York Presbyterian. She had been ill some time ago although lately, I was told, was feeling better than ever. Recently, however, she suffered a sudden relapse, and entered the hospital where she died shortly thereafter. On learning the news I could only think of her husband and family, and all those who did know her well. What a great great loss it must be for them, and what a great loss it is for us in the community which she loved as well.



December 9, Volume IV, Number 191
Photographs by Jeff Hirsch/NYSD.com

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