Divas and Legends
Blooming in Herald Square. 8:35 PM. Photo: JH.
I love to sing. To sing with Sinatra, or Bing, or Elvis, or John and Paul, Dylan or Neil Young, or Fats or Noel or Cole or Bobby or Marian or Merman or Billie or Luciano. To sing like them (in my wildest dreams). Of course when Luciano sings Nessun Dorma, I can only listen and fill to the brim with the rapture of his sounds.

And I’m not bad, as a singer – although I’m not good. When I was a very young man and studying to be an actor, I studied voice with a wonderful man, a great teacher, named John Mace. The result was a big (as in loud) and handsome voice that could hold a tune, consistently. Sometimes when I’m singing along with one of my favorites, like Alfred Drake or John Raitt in “Oklahoma” or “Carousel” I think for a minute that I still have that voice that I developed in Mr. Mace’s studio. Until they get to the high notes, and then alas, I am suddenly aware…I do not. At that revelation there is a ping of regret. But only a ping, because I do not believe in “regrets.”

But I still love to sing. And I’m still loud. I play the piano and sing and I listen to my iTunes day in, day out, night after night after night, and sing. I pretend my neighbors can’t hear me, that I live in a soundproof box. Although I can hear their tellys. (Shrug.) But I love to sing.

Screenshot of Pavarotti's tribute to Montserrat Caballé
And so that may be why, although I am by no means an opera buff, I am drawn year after year to the Metropolitan Opera Guild luncheon where each year they honor one of their greatest living voices. Last year it was Luciano, as Diary readers may recall. This year it was Montserrat Caballé (Kab-ah-yay).

Nine hundred of us congregated in the Grand Ballroom of the Waldorf along with a score of opera legends, officers and supporters of the Metropolitan Opera where they showered Madame Caballé with testimonials of encomiums and affection and awe. The program began with everyone taking their seats.

Then came the introduction, on stage, of the Honored Guests. Then came a video history of Madame Caballé’s life, from early childhood on in pre-Franco’s Spain. Then there was her appearance in Madame Butterfly with a handsome baritone Bernable Marti. At the end of one aria, the leading man kissed the leading lady passionately. At the end of the next aria, he asked her to marry him. On stage and in real life. Then came the moment of chance and serendipity that formulates the future.

Marilyn Horne was booked to sing a concert at Carnegie Hall in New York. She was eight months pregnant at the time and decided that the program would be too demanding of her and so she had to cancel. Last minute they hired a young unknown to replace her: Montserrat Caballé. The next day Rudolf Bing of the Met came to see her and to persuade her to stay in America. The rest is history. There was a video of Luciano from Italy congratulating his leading lady.

Caballé and Marilyn Horne
There was Sherrill Milnes describing what it was like to work with this very sweet woman who could disapprove (of a tempo, a costume, a direction) with a simple swoon that had its effect. There was Marilyn Horne, the woman whose cancellation jump-started Caballé’s American career. Ms. Horne related how the two women later worked together in Aida and afterwards became friends. The testimonials from colleagues are always, ultimately, backstage show biz stories, and endlessly fascinating to us civilians and fans listening in to the “inside.”

There was a special heart-rending serenade to Montserrat Caballé by fourth-graders from New York City Public School 212Q (Kat Alston, Choral Director). These kids are participants in The Guild’s Urban Voices Program – one of the programs funded by these fundraisers. Then there was a musical tribute by Deborah Voight singing a specially written piece of material addressed to the honoree called “It Isn’t Fair,” which was a Carol Burnett-like tribute in irony to the talents of Montserrat Caballé. Ms. Voight demonstrated a fabulous comic sense of timing (and musical delivery) that had the honoree and the audience shaking and quaking with laughter.

I am always curious how these great opera fans
become such for although I love music and am often moved by it, I was never drawn to grand opera with the intensity and passion that surrounded me in the Grand Ballroom yesterday afternoon. I was seated next to Thelma Fisher, whose son Sandy Fisher produces events for the Metropolitan Opera, such as the Mario Lanza tribute we covered on these pages several weeks ago.

I knew from our conversation about the luncheon testimonial that Mrs. Fisher is an opera buff. I asked her how that happened. She told me about her late husband who had been a musician and music lover all while growing up. He had wanted a musical career although his parents discouraged him, fearful of his financial future. So he became a businessman and music was his avocation. Music and art. On their first date which must have been about sixty-five years ago, he took her to a concert at Carnegie Hall. Third balcony. And although she liked Sinatra and Bing Crosby she wasn’t crazy about classical music. But because she liked her date, she pretended to be interested. From then on, he took her to the Met, which he loved. So passionate was he, she said, that when he saw a great performance, he would cry; and when he saw a lousy performance, he’d leave after the first act. All the while, his girlfriend, who then became his wife, went along, although only with an accommodating interest in opera.

Plácido Domingo and Caballé at the Met on Tokyo TV
Then one night they went to a performance of Lily Pons in Lucia de Lammamoor. There was the scene when Lily Pons comes down the staircase and sings her aria. For some inexplicable reason, Mrs. Fisher, long familiar and only slightly not indifferent to grand opera, was overtaken and overwhelmed by Pons’ aria in Lucia. And that was it. It clicked. All these years later, her husband having passed away, she subscribes to not one but two series of afternoon opera performances (she thinks of herself as too old to be going alone to the nighttime performances), and she is, as she confided to me, “an opera buff.” And now, with summer coming, she lamented, and the season, ending, she will be without her beloved grand opera, and it will be a real loss.

This was the 70th anniversary of the Metropolitan Opera Guild Luncheon. It was started by a woman named Eleanor Robson Belmont, an actress who married a very wealthy financier. She lived for a year more than a century and in her long life, she devoted herself to helping the Met stay alive and advancing its influence in the world. Mrs. Robson’s work was not in vain, although today the Met continues to look for ways to stimulate the interest of younger generations in the opera. It is a challenge they feel that is best cultivated in the earliest years. Mrs. Fisher’s son Sandy, now no longer a kid – far from it, you could say, as an opera buff, he has used his professional talents to share his passion and advance the interests of the Met and its millions of fans.

The luncheon started at 12:15 sharp and despite the number of people (almost 1000), and the intensity of emotion that fills the room with the performances, the memories and the personages, we were out of there by a little after two -- sated and satisfied, and not altogether unconvinced that the world is indeed a beautiful place, especially when there is singing.
Metropolitan Opera Guild Luncheon's Guests of Honor:

• Licia Albanese
• Lucine Amara
• Rockwel Blake
• Nico Castel
• Lili Chookasian
• Lonetta di Franco
• Mignon Dunn
• Rosalind Elias
• Simon Estes
• Marcello Giordiani
• Marilyn Horne
• Soile Isokosky
• Evelyn Lear
• Frank Lopardo
• John Macurdy
• Bernabe Marti (Mme. Caballe’s husband)
• Montserrat Marti (their daughter)
• Sherrill Milnes
• Anna Moffo
• Kurt Moli
• Rene Pape
• Roberta Petres
• Paul Pilshika
• Eve Queler
• Regina Reznik
• Julius Rudel
• Risë Stevens
• Thomas Stewart

Dais guests:

• David A. Dik
• James Marcus
• Regina Reznik
• Paul Kellogg
• Roberta Peters
• Carlos Caballe
• Marilyn Horne
• Joseph Volpe
• Susan Braddock
• Winthrop Rutherfurd, Jr.
• Montserrat Caballé
• Bernabe Marti
• Juan Manuel Egea Ibanez
• Sherrill Milnes
• Risë Stevens
• Lee C. Wortham
• Sarah Billinghurst
Lucine Amara, Montserrat Caballé, and Marilyn Horne
Risë Stevens and Lee Wortham
Thelma and Sandy Fisher with Joan Marcus
Lew Miano, Karen Lerner, and Neal Goren
Fourth-graders from PS 212Q and participants in The Guild Hall Urban Voices Program singing "Ers Tú"
Regina Resnik and Joe Volpe
Regina Resnik and James Marcus

Nimet Habachy, Charles Hamlen, and Elisabeth Hayes
Jean and Barry Tucker
Montserrat Caballé and her husband Bernabe Marti
L. to r.: Win Rutherfurd, Regina Resnik, Sherrill Milnes, and Montserrat Caballé; Deborah Voigt singing her hilarious tribute to Montserrat.
Marilyn Horne, Sandy Fisher, and Sherrill Milnes
Anna Moffo Sarnoff, Joe Volpe, and Susan Braddock

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A warm April evening and lots going on in New York. Over at New York Presbyterian, old friends of Bill Blass congregated for cocktails and dinner in honor of the late great designer for his enormous bequest to the AIDS unit of the hospital – an evening chaired by two of his closest friends, Casey Ribicoff and Mica Ertegun.

Then down at the Starlight Roof of the Waldorf Astoria, The Pasteur Foundation held an annual fund-raiser “An Evening of French Wine,” and honoring The Honorable William J. Clinton, 42nd President of the United States with the Pasteur Foundation’s 2005 Award. Honorary Chairs were Anne Cox Chambers, Dr. Judith Sulzberger and Mrs. and Mrs. Guy Wildenstein. Gala Chairmen were Elizabeth Fondaras, Mrs. Georges Hibon and Mrs. Spiros Milonas.

Me, I was over at Gotham Hall on 36th and Broadway where Pratt Institute
was holding their 6th annual “Pratt Legends” dinner which raised more than $400,000 for scholarships for Pratt students.

Dana Tyler and Marc Rosen
This year’s award winners were Robert Wilson (who was unable to attend because he was in hospital in Germany where he was being treated for gall bladder problems), the artist James Rosenquist, fashion designer Cathy Hardwick, costume jewelry designer and tycoon, Kenneth Jay Lane and Helmut Jahn, the great German architect who resides and works in Chicago.

The evening was hosted by CBS anchor Dana Tyler and chaired by Marc Rosen and Juliana Curran Terian, who herself was once a Pratt scholarship student. Mr. Rosen and some members of the board started this events in 1999 and since then they have raised millions to assist Pratt students and in the meantime have also elevated the public profile of this great New York art school.

The first recipient at last night’s dinner was Cathy Hardwick and her presenter, Tom Ford, was unable to attend but was on video. Mr. Ford, now a tycoon of world fashion, got his start with Ms. Hardwick, and he got it by pure stick-to-it-iveness. He kept after her until she gave him a job. He even confessed on camera that it probably wasn’t his portfolio that got him hired, but that she just was impressed by his ambition. Later, Ms. Hardwick told the audience that she herself had had no formal training to be a designer (although she’s since taught at Pratt) but always encouraged people to go after what they want and to specifically pursue fashion houses that interested them most.

Kenny Lane, now one of the great social figures of the last half-century of New York, droll, wry, witty, and never without a last word, told the audience that “My parents had a big problem with me. I was an only child and when you decide at age eight that you are a legend, it’s not easy for the parents.” Diana Vreeland was a great mentor for him. “Diana knew nothing about negativity,” he recalled. “She was only interested in the positive.” He started out as a shoe designer and happened into costume jewelry, borrowing from, inspired by the greats, such as Fulco Verdura. In short time, his work was so popular with the chicest of women that he became a household word. Today his designs are a million dollar business on QVC and he rejoices in his continued success: “Not only have I been able to keep the wolves from the door, but I’ve been able to keep women (and maybe some men – who knows) happy with my jewelry.” Furthermore, he added, reflecting on his design beginnings, “Jewelry doesn’t hurt – shoes can hurt.”
Thomas Schutte, James Rosenquist, Juliana Curran Terian, Cathy Hardwick, and Helmut Jahn
Helmut Jahn was somewhat confounded by the term “legend,” regarding it as something that sums up a life and career, while he is still vitally involved with his work. As a partner in Murphy/Jahn, his work is indeed legendary – the Bayer Building in Leverkuson, Germany, the IIT Student Housing in Chicago, the Sony Center of Berlin, the Munich Airport Center, the European Union Headquarters in Brussels, the RCID Administration Building in Buena Vista Florida, the Principal Mutual Life Insurance Company Corporate Expansion in Des Moines (see more by visiting his web site: http://www.murphyjahn.com), what was impressive about Mr. Jahn was his obvious modesty and continuing passion for his work and objectives.

James Rosenquist came to New York from the midwest in the early 1950s with a scholarship to the Arts Students League. He got a job painting billboards for Art Craft Strauss which had almost a monopoly on signs on Broadway and all over the city. He recalled his first job was painting Hebrew National Salami Signs in East New York and Coney Island. He painted so many Schenley ads that included a reference on the label to the ingredients of the alcoholic concoction that out of whim and boredom, he began changing the copy to “Mary Had a Little Lamb.”

Mr. Strauss, of Art Craft Strauss, remained impressed with the young man’s talent and so he remained on the job. Looking today at the museum collections of Mr. Rosenquist’s work (he still looks like a grown up farmer’s son from North Dakota, and a very youthful septuagenarian), one can easily see how his early experiences in New York City, opened up a world class career and influence on the art history of the century.

Characteristic of all of last night’s awardees was their plain and simple, and never fancy attitude toward their work. They pursued those things which intrigued and interested them and found ways of turning uncommon interests into common objects of life enhancing beauty.

New York, New York, it’s a helluva town!
Kohle Yohannan, Cathy Hardwick, and Richard Turley
Kohle Yohannan, Cathy Hardwick, and Michael Vollbracht
Paula and Ken Wolfe
Michele Gerber Klein

Sharon Hoge and Kenny Lane
Sharon Bush
Juliana Curran Terian and Carole Holmes McCarthy

Bob Osborne and Karen Weinberg



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A bouquet upstairs at the cocktail reception and the table settings as seen from above
Mario Buatta and Roger Webster
Marc Rosen, Bob Osborne, Jane Powell, Arlene Dahl, and Dickie Moore
Cece Cord and Jonathan Marder
Joan Jedell

R. Couri Hay, Cece Cord, and DPC
The table settings



April 20, 2005, Volume V, Number 68
Photographs by Jeff Hirsch & DPC/NYSD.com

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